Ok, so.
It’s been three months since I’ve written and to say absolutely nothing has happened will be an understatement.
First and foremost, I’m getting married in FOUR MONTHS!! Secondly, my rabbits are FIVE MONTHS old!! And I’ve been working at Company A for THREE MONTHS!!
So much has happened and much has progressed and everything has been for the better. I’m so happy in my little life.
Last month, I was in Telisland for about two weeks and I finally had the chance to meet a lot of Telis‘ extended family; his paternal grandparents, his grandmother’s sister, his dad’s sisters, his mother’s brother, his cousins, his godmother and more of his friends. It was a lot of people but they all welcomed me with open arms and showered me with gifts. It was great!
I also got my engagement ring but drama; although I specifically went to the jeweller to choose the exact ring that I wanted and to also have my finger measured, the guy came out with a ring that was the complete opposite of my specification and too big for me. I’m sure he basically had a ring lying around that he wanted to get rid of and just gave it to me. I’m not happy and so I’m not wearing it. Telis wants to buy me a second engagement ring, and I was all for it, but now I can’t be bothered. I’d rather just wear my plain wedding band after we’re married.
Company A is great! I’m pretty much working from home four out of five days a week and sometimes all week too! I’ve been building my home network and trying to learn about the solution portfolio. Last week, I was given accounts that I will be working with so I can finally get stuck in. I’m excited!
Every major purchase for the wedding has been made. Now it’s just the little things here and there to think of. We’ve only just recently found our cake maker since Sana’s friend that we were going to use decided to charge us an extortionate price. I told her ‘see ya!’ and found a lovely lady on Facebook, whose pricing is amazing! Literally 67% cheaper. We’ve even done a taster of her cake and it’s good!
There’s really isn’t much else to think of, although I’ve been making bridesmaids gifts with my cutting machine. I’ve cut out vinyl names and stuck them on things to make pretty gifts for my girls – I might even turn it into a business since the machine cost me a pretty penny.
Telis and I have been talking and although we’ll be married soon, we won’t start trying for a baby until I’ve been at Company A for over a year – so probably around December 2020. I just want us to buy a house so that our rabbits can live inside, as opposed to outside in the garden. I’d love for my kids and rabbits to grow up together.
In other news, I’m 27 this month. Ew. Telis has some extravagant outing planned for me. We’re driving up north and staying in a fancy spa and doing fancy spa stuff. Fun!
I really should update my journal more, especially when so much good is happening in my life. Imagine the next time I write that I’m a married woman – like someone’s wife. GASP. It’s weird.
I never actually gave a list of my bridesmaids;
- Elfa (sister)
- Tas (sister)
- Sun (cousin)
- Cameera (cousin)
- Ese (cousin)
- Sana (friend)
- Winter (friend)
- Daye (friend)
- Ria (friend)
- Tessa (Telis’s sister)
So, those are my ten girls.
Drama, drama: So as you know, my dad’s brother is best friends with my biological father. So dad’s brother calls me a few weeks back when I’m in Telisland asking whether I’m going to invite Bioman (my biological person) to my wedding and that letting him know is the respectful thing to do and bla, bla, bla. Needless to say, I let him know that I wasn’t going to speak with Bioman but if he wanted to show up to my wedding, that it wouldn’t make any difference to me but really, I don’t want him there.
I owe him nothing and he has no obligation to be there. He’s not in my life and as far as I’m concerned, he’s a stranger and would you invite a stranger to your wedding? No.
So with all that is said and done, I shall now leave until there’s something to report.
Byeeeeee!